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summer retreat

7/24/2015

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Picture
Tom Thomson, Cold Spring Algonquin Park, from Golden Eagle Art Gallery
I wrote recently about "Summer Fun" in my blog--this week, I wanted to address the topic of "Summer Retreat."  I'm a big believer in retreats meaning quiet time spent cossetted away from other influences and obligations so that you can restore and reflect.  To me, a retreat is not lying on the beach, nor is it going on some "extreme" sport adventure. Retreat involves a spiritual and educational element.  It is time to go within but also to expand your perspectives and knowledge.  This past weekend, my husband and I went to a Native American Shamanistic retreat in Algonquin Park (pictured above in the painting by Canadian artist, Tom Thomson).  Algonquin is in the Canadian shield, so there is granite and birches and lots of different evergreens.  There are also hundreds of lakes and so the setting is watery, deep green and cool (a perfect setting for the work of a retreat).

One of the aspects of a retreat that I appreciate is the ability to be dedicated fully to the purpose of the retreat. Because you are able to go elsewhere in a space dedicated to that purpose, you can ignore the day-to-day.  Of course, for me (and most people) that means running around a few days before "taking care of business" and "clearing your plate" so as to be able to go with a clean conscience. Invariably I forget something that I meant to pack, but it usually isn't a tragedy.  For this retreat, I'd forgotten where I packed my make-up and my journal.  I purchased another journal (not like they'll go to waste) and went with very light make-up (powder/eye pencil/chapstick) though I ended up having to purchase two powder compacts before finding the right shade (sigh . . . ).  

The retreat was at a facility dedicated to spiritual growth workshops so it was designed to calm and inspire.  It had a sauna hut, various gardens, lots of wind chimes and statues and crystals.  Hummingbirds and bees busily flitted amongst the flowers.  Chipmunks ran along the paths.  The food was all local, organic and prepared with an exceeding amount of care and pride.  We were treated to truly healthy food that nourished on a multitude of levels.  The whole place reminded me of what is possible when love, focus and purpose are put toward creating a vision.  It was inspirational. (If you are interested in looking at their programs, please see this link: https://www.northernedgealgonquin.ca/)

Most importantly, the retreat allowed me the chance to come into myself and into a state of concentrated calmness.  All the way up to the park, I was in a vile mood due to the rainy weather.  As it turned out, the rain was lovely when we arrived--cleansing and refreshing.  The weather didn't matter at all.  The rest of the weekend we saw sun, some clouds, a bit of warming up--but again, it really didn't matter.  It was a good reminder of how I can get wound up about something that doesn't merit anxiety or anger.  

Over the weekend, we drummed, and sang, and canoed. We saw a family of loons protecting their two chicks (amazing), we saw herons and cranes and we saw the Northern LIghts and the Milky Way.  We ate well, slept well and connected with people also dedicated to deepening their spiritual connection to the earth.  So, perhaps think about how--before summer is over--you can engage in your own retreat either away or at home.

You can, of course, look for a local retreat (either stay-over or not) but there are ways to accomplish this at home as well:
  1. Set your retreat to last from 4:00 Friday to Noon Sunday.
  2. Buy yourself simple but really health food to get you through that time.  Ingredients for smoothies, high-quality eggs, field green salad mixes, vegetables for grilling, beautiful berries, rice pasta with a great marinara.  Keep it easy but clean, fresh and comforting.  Buy a high end organic coffee and/or a terrific tea as well.  
  3. Get yourself some spiritual reading from any tradition, or go with something like Eckhart Tolle's A New Earth.  Dedicate time throughout the weekend to reading. 
  4. Buy a journal for daily writing and reflection.
  5. Get some relaxing "spa" music.  CD's, Amazon Prime Playlists, Pandora, YouTube--so many options! Choose what appeals to you.  For some this may be nature sounds, for others crystal bowls, for others relaxing piano.  Test out a few and see what induces a feeling of calm.
  6. Unplug.  No cell phone, no checking email, let your answering machine pick up calls.
  7. NO TELEVISION.  At all,  Period.
  8. No other obligations.  For families, this means telling your family members that this is your retreat time and that this is what you'll be doing.  You may want to organize a family hike, but no activities that involve large groups or very public settings (no ball games, for example).  Plan ahead places you may go for calm and quietude: parks, trails, art museums, libraries. 
  9. Get to bed EARLY.  No staying up to surf the internet. You should ideally be in bed by 10:00.  Rest is a prime component.
  10. Get up early and greet the day with a meditative walk, taking in the sights, smells and sounds.

Retreat is easier when arranged by professionals, but it is also more expensive and not always available when you need/want it. Arranging your own retreat time is always possible with forethought and dedication to taking time for yourself. Each season should involve a period of introspection--a stepping back from the day-to-day.  In this way, we can always appreciate the uniqueness of the cycles of the year and prepare ourselves to move through life more gracefully. 


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Artfully yours,
Lisabeth


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Summer fun

7/11/2015

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Picture
Mary Cassatt, Summertime, 1894 from commons.wikipedia.org
I'm sitting on my back patio, enjoying the sunshine, a light breeze, the animals and the ease of summer.  Shouldn't summer be easefull?  I think so, and I believe most people think so, but I wonder how many take advantage of the languidness built into the summer months.  Now, admittedly, as a teacher, my summer's do not involve the normal daily grind of the academic year.  If they did, I would no longer be a teacher because the pace and work is too intense.  I work at a boarding school, and that fact alone increases my work load by a third as I am required to coach sports, run extracurricular programs, eat in the dining hall with students, and help monitor study hours in dormitories.  This is above and beyond my daily work in the classroom and the hours needed to grade work and to prepare for classes.  Restorative breaks are the only way that I can manage to do this job.  But it is not just timing that makes summer a perfect time to slow down. The heat should also signal your body to not overdo.  So no, I don't think summer is the ideal time to train for a marathon.  

I began my summer with a week-long service trip to PIne Ridge Reservation in South Dakota where we built and installed outhouses.  The organization, Re-Member, runs this program and their director said to our group, first thing: SLOW DOWN.  Things on the reservation don't move quickly.  SLOW DOWN.  Do more listening and less talking.  SLOW DOWN.  Engage in more thoughtfulness and less judgment.  SLOW DOWN.  I'm trying right now to bring more of that into my summer.  Less frantic action, less scurrying--more doing not very much or doing it at a languid pace.  Less thinking about the things that bug me.  More enjoyment of the simple pleasures.

I have friends who have summer places, I know--a true privileged luxury.  You know what?  Many spend almost no time at them.  They are busy with kids' sports, and thus tied to being in town for team schedules, or they are trying to make extra money doing extra work.  What a waste.  Thankfully, with a daughter who has no interest in athletics, I have never been held hostage by a coach's obligations.  And, I've learned my lesson, that the bit of extra money one earns taking on extra jobs comes at a huge cost to my physical/mental self (and is too easily eaten up by extra taxes anyhow).    

Things to consider:
  • Is your summer schedule dictated by too many of other people's obligations?  Teams, camps, parties, reunions, etc.?  If it is, consider what you are getting from these commitments.  If they aren't elevating your life, then it is time for a family meeting to discuss household quality of life.
  • Are you continuing to work out super hard in the summer?  If you are, then why not consider giving your body a bit of a rest by switching from running to walking, from heavy weights to yoga, from competitive sports to just throwing around a frisbee or ball, or playing badminton?
  • Are you eating junky food?  Too many funnel cakes, french fries, ribs, cupcakes and ice cream can have you running for your larger t-shirts and baggy shorts in a hurry.  Try enjoying nature's unadultered bounty instead.  Cherries, watermelon, corn on the cob (roasted and eaten PLAIN), salads.  If you want something ice-cream like, opt for a creamy but healthy smoothie. (Frozen peaches, bananas, coconut milk and water are a great combo--add a slice of ginger for zing).
  • Are you watching too much tv?  Turn it off.  Spend some time listening to music, reading a book or just sitting, observing, talking and enjoying life.
  • Are you making time for sex?  Opt for the cooler hours and take your time--again, if you aren't enjoying this in the summer, then when are you? Lock the door and tell the kids to make their own breakfast (surely they can manage to put a bowl of cereal together themselves).
  • Check out local trails and events.  Enjoy the bounty of the nature and culture in your area.  With the internet you cannot plead ignorance.  

I love the Mary Cassatt picture at the top of this post because she captures the simple beauty of being on the water, enjoying the nature of the element itself and the creatures that make their lives there.  Pick up the rhythm of their unhurried days and enjoy the warmth and slowness of this season of warmth and ripening.

Artfully yours,
Lisabeth
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    Lisabeth Robinson

    I have been an educator for 20 years.  I create, I play, I guide and I grow.  I want to share that with you too!

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