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Ringing out the old, bringing in the new

12/31/2015

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Claude Monet, Lavacourt Sunshine and Snow, from Wiki Commons
I love new beginnings.  The start of weeks, months, seasons and years to me always presents an opportunity to review, re-think and reboot.  The idea of starting anew and being just a bit more together and on top of things brings me hope.  I always wonder if this is a healthy attitude.  After all, time is an arbitrary measure that we as humans have invented.  In a larger spiritual sense, none of these things (measures of time or measures of myself as a human being) should really matter, right?  I should be always living in the moment, grateful for what is and not dwelling on past or future.  Indeed, I try to live my days in this way, but let's be honest, as humans we don't just wander the world not thinking at all about where we are going.  We all employ some form of "road maps" -- both literal and figurative-- to use as guides.  I find this time of year a perfect one for constructing a road map for myself to begin a fresh year.

Ironically, even though I'm trained as a historian, I don't like to spend too much time looking back.  That being said, it is useful to engage in a bit of reflection and to ponder what went well, and what didn't, in the past year.  For myself, in 2015, here's what went well:
  • I found and started a degree program in Global Health that will help me to do bigger work in the future, and to guide my students on becoming big problem solvers, not just "money-makers".
  • I was recognized as a "Top Teacher" in an area publication.  Kudos are always welcome.
  • I celebrated my first anniversary with my new husband, a beautiful partnership for which I'm eternally grateful.
  • I lost some weight which has made my body feel better.  I rediscovered that a lower carb, higher protein diet works better for me (something I've known, but have rejected out of inner brattiness).
  • I attended a terrific shaman retreat where I had an unexpected supernatural experience that has changed me.
  • I taught a new course on Native American culture that was loved by my students and which felt like valuable work on a journey to explore this culture more deeply.
  • I led a service trip to the Pine Ridge Reservation, my first such trip and something that I now know will be part of my life always.
  • I traveled to England and had the benefit of watching my daughter bloom as an English prep school student for two weeks.
  • I did much valuable committee work that has moved my school forward on becoming more progressive and innovative.
What didn't go so well:
  • ​I'd like to feel less "flat out" with my work, less stressed, less "last-minute".
  • I let an overblown family event, and some incredibly immature people, impact my health, well-being and psyche.  Lesson learned: NEVER AGAIN.  Others do not get to determine how I feel physically or mentally.
Honestly, that's about it.  I'm pretty fortunate in that my positives far outweigh my negatives.  Here's what I'm looking forward to in the year to come:
  • Some beginning of the year focus on health, more austere eating and better self-care practices.
  • Continuing and finishing my degree program
  • Designing a new course
  • Traveling to Pine Ridge again, with students and my husband
  • Traveling to Quebec/Montreal with my father and husband
  • Traveling to NYC with my daughter to take in some Broadway shows and art museums
  • Traveling to visit a friend in Utah--lots of hiking and healthy cooking
  • Starting to learn Ojibway (a Native American language)
  • Hopefully attending another retreat, maybe even starting my own retreat workshops
  • Saving up for a house in the future
  • Watching my daughter become a freshman at the school where I teach
How do I intend to follow through with all these great plans?  Organization is key, of course.  There are two practices I find absolutely essential in achieving my goals: 
  1. A daily record sheet for my personal health practices
  2. A weekly schedule of how I'll spend my time
My daily planner is typed out and on it I record if I've hit my protein goals, my vegetable goals, taken my supplements, drunk enough water, exercised, gone to bed on time, etc. It holds me accountable and I even put a space for planning out my tentative menu for the next day.  (It's usually when under time crunch that we make poor choices).

For my weekly schedule, I print out my teaching schedule and then fill in the blocks during the day and into the evening with what I'll do when.  In this way, I can see what I need to accomplish and where I can do it.  I even put in my exercise time (if you schedule it, it will be more likely to happen).  On the back of this copy, I make out my "to do" list for the week.  

Finally, I will make out a "bigger" list of more momentous things I need to do.  For example, schedule a colonoscopy. Again, if it is on a list, it's more likely to happen.  You should review this list either weekly or monthly in order to hold yourself accountable.  This list will include my year-long list of monthly charitable donations (each month I donate a set amount of money to a different local charity--my daughter and I make it a family discussion/decision).


Assess your past, determine your future.  This is how you live life without regrets.  Do the work now and keep at it every week, every day.  In this way the years need not speed by with you feeling as though you've been left behind.  Ring out the old, usher in the new with excitement. And, a couple of shameless plugs:  Help yourself along with the January "Fresh Start" course.  We examine the order of life, look to the beautiful jewel tones of winter birds for inspiration, and enjoy the fresh, bracing qualities of pine. For $24.99 you'll start the year enlightened and energized. If you are looking for something deeper (and what better time to dive in than the beginning of a new year), then sign up for our "Healing Traditions" Course: 10 weeks, 5 traditions, a lifetime of knowledge for $100. Both can be purchased on the link below.
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the greatest gift I ever received

12/14/2015

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Emmie and her child, Mary Cassatt, 1889
By far the greatest gift I have ever received is my daughter--fourteen years ago.  She changed my life in ways that I could never have predicted.  I did not think I would ever have a child and yet, as though conjured solely by my will, she came.  I remember the day her old soul entered my body.  I was hoping for such a one as she, and she chose me, and transformed me.  No longer could I be foolish, short-sighted, self-destructive, not with her to care for and guide.  Before I had my daughter, I  had let myself get unhealthy.  Poor food choices, too much wine, too little exercise and sleep had left me heavy and yet oddly depleted.  After I had my daughter, I decided that I faced a choice: be the "old, fat mommy" or get in shape.  I carefully considered both because there is nothing wrong with being an older mother, and nothing wrong with being heavy.  No one should be treated as somehow morally deficit for their body.  However, I do believe that you need to own it and be alright with it.  So, if I could have been the older, heavier, happy mommy, that would have been just fine.  But I knew myself well enough to know that I wouldn't be that person. I'd be constantly comparing myself, mentally browbeating myself and wondering how I was going to keep up and enjoy her childhood.  Instead, I chose to get in shape and transform myself.  I lost 60 pounds and found my inner athlete.  But this was just a cosmetic outer change.  The real transformation came from within.  I stopped just thinking about myself and put her first.  I asked more of myself in terms of my own behavior.  I became kinder and more compassionate.  I reaffirmed my commitment to social justice and equity.  Too many people in this world suffer at the hands of the greed of others.  I became more daring in what I was willing to learn, to try, to say.  I unleashed my creativity.  

I still have a popsicle stick on which she wrote, "To my mother, who has made my bloom."  To that I say, "right back at you honey, and thank you."  Total reciprocity.  I couldn't be more proud of the intelligent, hard-working, kind, funny, caring, talented and beautiful young woman she has become.  And, I am proud of what I've become too from guiding her.  She has been the greatest gift I've ever received.  For those who are parents, I want you to contemplate your relationship with your children.  Is it what you want it to be--why or why not?  Do an honest self-evaluation.  For those who aren't parents, nurturing is not restricted to those who give birth! In fact, the painting above, done by Mary Cassatt, reflects an artist who never married or had children.  She considered herself a "new woman" who could flourish in her talent and accomplishment--and she did.  She focused her lens on the relationships of mothers and children but never felt the need to experience that for herself.  Her work has inspired and comforted admirers for over a hundred years.  Your talents as a force of life need not be wasted.  A friend, a relative, a pet, a cause--all can benefit from your loving kindness.  Think about where you might turn your attention and then think about how that nurturing will be mirrored in yourself.  This is the greatest gift you can give, and the greatest you will ever receive.  

Gratefully--Lisabeth

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    Lisabeth Robinson

    I have been an educator for 20 years.  I create, I play, I guide and I grow.  I want to share that with you too!

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