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11/25/2015

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If you're dieting, or experimenting with your diet, you may be thinking about how you'll handle Thanksgiving dinner.  I have some thoughts on that which I'd like to share.  I've tried many different diets at various times in my life.  For several years, I was vegetarian.  At Thanksgiving, I ate my mom's turkey without guilt or fuss or explanation.  Here's my take--diets that are adopted by choice are not religious observations. If you practice a religion that says not to eat pork, then by all means, skip the sausage stuffing.  Otherwise, lighten up!  I have friends who eat raw, swear by only organic or have become vegan, and listening to them yap away about how great (even morally superior) they are as a result of their diets is tiresome.  No one wants to hear it.  I think at holiday gatherings you do the best you can to be reasonable about observing your eating principles without turning it into a moral crusade.  Aunt Gertrude doesn't want to hear about how she'd lose fifty pounds if she put down the dinner rolls and Uncle Stan doesn't want to hear about how he could run a marathon if he quit drinking beer.  It isn't the time or place.  (And hey, vegetarians, really NO ONE wants to eat your Tofurkey or Seitan loaf). Holiday meals are a time to exercise flexibility, not to set yourself up as an example of dietary rigidity.  No one likes a militant at the table.

Now, that being said, there are ways to navigate the Thanksgiving meal that will result in less bloating, discomfort and regret:​
  1. Spend today and tomorrow eating lightly. Smoothies, soups, salads, cooked veggies. This is pretty easy.  On Thanksgiving day, just go with smoothies, tea and hot water up until meal time.  Get yourself in a place of hunger before enjoying a feast.  Go for a good long walk in the morning.
  2. Skip the dinner rolls.  Really, at a meal where you are likely eating more than normal filling up on bread is a waste of calories and carbs.
  3. Go for what you really love.  I love the turkey, my mom's stuffing (traditional) and the homemade cranberry sauce my daughter makes the night before.  I can eat sweet potatoes and other vegetables anytime.  So I focus on just those three things--nothing else hits my plate.
  4. Start small.  Yes, I like several portions/helpings--that's what makes it feel like feasting.  So I start off with a couple of bits of turkey, a tablespoon of stuffing and a couple of teaspoons of cranberry sauce.  I can fill my plates three or four times with that much and have eaten a normal-sized plate, yet feel no guilt.
  5. Skip the alcohol.  I often take flavored sparkling water with me so that I'll have something festive to drink.  This year, I'll probably go with pomegranate or cranberry or orange flavored La Croix.
  6. Skip the appetizers, unless you're nibbling on a few veggies, nuts or olives.  Nothing more.
  7. For dessert, consider eating just the pumpkin in the pie.  I love pumpkin pie, but with most of them, the crust is just a soggy holder for the pumpkin custard.  So just leave it.  No reason you can't just eat the filling.  
  8. Have a nice cup of tea to end the meal, no eggnog or coffee filled with cream and sugar. Save those calories for separate treats.
  9. Walk before the meal, walk after.  A great time for fellowship, contemplation and appreciation.  
  10. Regret nothing.  Even if you make a poor choice, practice self-love by not beating yourself up over it.  And take some alka seltzer with you.  I usually have one just as good form after a feasting meal.
Be thankful for your good bounty and for the ability to choose your foods.  Many don't have this option.  Most of all be thankful for the people in your life who make it all worth it!

​With gratitude--  Lisabeth
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5/26/2019 04:59:20 pm

This is one of the problems I face during thanksgiving season. I am on an intermittent fasting that's why there is a certain eating pattern that I need to follow. But it would be a disgrace if the whole family is going to eat in front of the table together and I will be there and let them think that I am depriving myself. Of course, it will never be right that's why these tips are all helpful to me! I am looking forward to hear more things from you!

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